Saturday, July 31, 2010

He is the only source of protection

I worry about our young sisters riding their bikes on our streets with no where to get away from cars. They are out until 9 PM when it is double dark. Not only are the streets,even very busy one, dangerously narrow, but we have heat advisories on days like today when they are out on bikes for four hours at a time. Here's today's weather report 97.7 F. and with the heat index 112 F., 98% humidity. The record is 98 F. in 1993. We pray for their safety. The Lord has to protect them. Thankfully He does.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Lexi and me

I loved sitting across the table from Lexi at the 24th of July Celebration and just talking. She is in my Sunday School class. Very special girl who lived the first ten years of her life with her non member mom and now lives with her dad and step mom. She wears a purity ring that says true love waits. I'm proud of her and her values. She shared with me her feelings about love and life. Just a remarkable young girl. She's not a member, but hopefully will be soon.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Our Stake 24th of July Celebration

Our Stake President is a wonderful good sport. The next to the last photo is of jambalaya that my friend Sister Earnhart made. She won first place in the contest. It was fabulous. The white cake with nuts is called a hummingbird cake. It won best dessert. The blueberry pie looked fabulous too. My friend Sister Matson was the photographer. It was a very fun party. You're right... no pioneer clothes. Pioneers were mentioned and honored though.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Registering Bishops

catch a falling star Pictures, Images and Photos One of my assignments here is to register Stake Presidents and Bishops on ldsjobs.org. It has been a real experience trying to get these busy men to take time to do it. When they do, or even promise to, I tell them that they will get stars on their chart in heaven and that I will personally stand at the pearly gate to hand out the stars. We have a good laugh as they tell me they need them, but many still remain unregistered. I have all four of my Stake Presidents (Tallahassee, FL, Memphis North, TN, Jackson, MS, Alexandria, LA) registered, but Branch Pres and Bishops,well there are more of them.I believe that I have finally come upon a way that seems to work. I call them and ask if we can set up an appointment when they can be at their computer for 15-20 minutes and I will walk them through it. I have five appointments set up from calls I made today. They all know who I am from instructive e-mails that I've sent and after I say "This is Sister Dustin" and start to say from the LDS Employment Resource Services they interrupt me and say say Hi, how are you? Usually then they add I know I need to do it, or I know I'm dragging my feet, or some such. One Bishop today after I start explaining that I was Sister Dustin from ... He said "Is there another one?" My funniest response today was one who said "I have 30 unanswered e-mails and half of them are from you". I told him if he'd just do it and give his Ward Employment Specialist rights I'd stop bugging him and the WES can do the work for him from there. We joked around about it and he agreed. The Bishops I serve are generally very well educated, but still sort of country men. Some have PhD's, some administrators of Universities,bigwig military, doctors, attorneys, etc. But the southern accent helps me feel less intimidated and free to be myself.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Professional Network Group

I had the privilege of leading the Professional Network Group today. It's a weekly class we hold for those who have taken the Career Workshop and want the opportunity to talk about what they have learned and what they are doing in their job search, to exchange leads,networking tips etc. This group today was made up of some of my very favorite career workshop participants. It was fun to have them all together. They are so helpful and enthusiastic with each other. Just simply exceptional people. Steve in the back is a candy salesman with incredible motivation abilities. He's not a member. Nor is Antoinette the lady on the right. She's a paralegal. The other two are members of my ward Kerry and Gina. We had dinner at their home a few months ago. (I posted a picture here on March 23rd in their kitchen.) Gina is a Real Estate broker and Kerry was in government intelligence, somehow, I think it was. They have only one son and one daughter who are both serving missions in Brazil. There is an article published in the July 2010 New Era written by the daughter before her mission regarding the bishops storehouse in our building.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Moments to remember with Sister Winters

We were tracting in a nicer neighborhood in the rain yesterday, but didn't want to get the camera wet so today here we are minus rain.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Oak Grove Cemetery

Because of the water level many caskets in the cemeteries are above ground here in Slidell. In New Orleans many more are above ground. We are 6 foot above sea level and they are 7 foot below. Singing "Under the sea, under the sea."

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Say cheese

This is Bro. Taylor a nice older man in my ward who bought this huge cheese at Sam's Club. His wife asked me Sunday if I liked cheese and I said yes. He came walking into the center this afternoon to present it to me. I asked to have our picture taken so we could say cheese. The bump on his head is from a brown recluse spider bite.

Mission tradition

The "death" of a missionary. When a missionary is finished with his mission and is ready to go home he is said to have died. Here are the young missionaries in our district holding the funeral.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Swingin' in the Southern Sun

We went to visit less active families with the young proselyting sisters today. I want to share here pictures of one of the homes we visited. The husband works nights and so he was asleep but the sister invited us into her enormous, gorgeous back yard where we had a wonderful visit under her pergola. We enjoyed sitting there admiring the view of the yard carved out of the wooded landscape as we discussed the church in her life. She's a great gardener with the picture perfect yard which I completely enjoyed. We had fun taking pictures in the front yard of her home. We all agreed it is the ideal version of the traditional Southern home. We also visited an adorable in-active young man who is in our class. We love to go out with the young sisters where we get a taste of proselyting. We were told before we came out that the church no longer sends single senior sisters on proselyting missions. Sister Goodin and I are two of the first six single senior sisters in the church sent to an employment center, so we're 'special'. Think so?

Monday, July 5, 2010

Sister Matson and me

Our Employment Center was closed because of the National holiday and so we were able to enjoy an early Family Home Evening. There is no way I can explain the great time we had. We ate at the cute cafe' where I had a fun southern sandwich that they call PoBoy. It's sort of a toasted smashed subway. Well, kind of. It was fun to be with the Matson's. Sister Matson is truly a forever friend. I'll never forget her influence inside the center and out.

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Independence Day Celebration

To celebrate the Fourth of July our ward had a pancake breakfast, flag raising ceremony and primary kids parade. This little one is my favorite.

Painter Arnold Friberg dies

I'm especially grateful for this painting of Captain Moroni as he raises the Title of Liberty and its influence on my sons.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Me and Sparkletts Water Makin' Friends

Remember that jingle? Well it fits me today.I have a WES (ward employment specialist) that I recently helped. She serves in Memphis,Tennessee. Her name is Laura Law and her e-mail is lauraatlaw. She is a paralegal. She told me her husband is in the Bishopric. Anyway long story short our director had seen a contributor to ldsjobs.org who put into the system jobs available at Goodwill. They have to have Bishop's authorization and she used only corporate phone number and Goodwill in Memphis as the address. So we are unable to reach her easily. There was also another person who posted himself as a contributor for Goodwill. His name is Michael Law. The director asked me to check on him. Same problem using corporate info. I figured maybe Michael Law and Laura Law could be a couple and so googled Michael and Laura Law and found this picture with their site regarding adoption and was able to see what she looks like and learn much about her, as well as contact him. It really is amazing how quickly you connect with people you work with in the church. Isn't it? I work with four stakes and so contact a lot of stake and ward specialist. Some quickly become friends. My story doesn't sound nearly as exciting in the telling here as it really was. And ps they look like the typical southern couple.

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Nephi, The Broken Bow And Unemployment

During a recent bishops' council meeting, the reality of these troubling and uncertain economic times hit home with intense clarity. The prophetic words of President Gordon B. Hinckley from the October 1998 Priesthood session: "…I am suggesting that the time has come to get our houses in order. So many of our people are living on the very edge of their incomes. In fact, some are living on borrowings. We have witnessed in recent weeks wide and fearsome swings in the markets of the world. The economy is a fragile thing. A stumble in the economy in Jakarta or Moscow can immediately affect the entire world. It can eventually reach down to each of us as individuals. There is a portent of stormy weather ahead to which we had better give heed"1 which I had recently re-read echoed in my mind and heart as we discussed the employment needs of families in our wards and stake. As with many of our stake members to include bishops and two us in the stake presidency, the downward changes in the economy had hit my business and I had begun looking for ways to reduce expenditures and, possibly, for a change in employment. During the weeks that followed, I searched for examples, guidance and counsel in the scriptures about employment that I could use personally and with our stake members, leaders and neighbors in an upcoming stake conference. One evening as I was reading the account of Nephi and the broken bow in 1st Nephi 16, the words in verse 18, took on new meaning: "And it came to pass that as I, Nephi, went forth to slay food, behold, I did break my bow, which was made of fine steel; and after I did break my bow, behold, my brethren were angry with me because of the loss of my bow, for we did obtain no food." As I read those words over again, the thought struck me that, in essence, Nephi by having his bow break had lost his means of production and became unemployed at that moment as a provider. He wasn't able to provide for some of the temporal needs of his family. I eagerly read, with new interest, the verses that followed to gain insight into what he did to overcome his situation. The lessons we can learn from Nephi and the broken bow are invaluable to anyone seeking new or a change in employment. These lessons include the following principles. Unemployment can happen to anyone and is not a sign of unworthiness: Nephi was a righteous leader among his people. His bow breaking had nothing to do with unworthiness. Trials come to all of us at various times in our lives. Elder Richard G. Scott said: "Just when all things seem to be going right, challenges often come in multiple doses applied simultaneously. When those trials are not consequences of your disobedience, they are evidence that the Lord feels you are prepared to grow more. He therefore gives you experiences that stimulate growth, understanding, and compassion which polish you for your everlasting benefit. To get you from where you are to where He wants you to be requires a lot of stretching, and that generally entails discomfort and pain."2 Through the broken bow incident, Lehi's family members were able to experience trials that helped them grow spiritually and temporally for "just as a gem cannot be polished without friction, neither can a man or woman be perfected without trials".3 Trust in the Lord: Nephi trusted in the Lord that if he would put forth effort, the Lord would bless him to become employed again as a provider. He didn't murmur; he didn't complain. He served as an example of faith, hope and love as he persuasively counseled his father, brothers and other family members to increase their faith and trust in the Lord. As Nephi of old, we need to put our trust in the Lord. The Lord has said: "All flesh is in mine hands, be still and know that I am God."4 We are told in Mosiah that "if ye will turn to the Lord with full purpose of heart, and put your trust in him, and serve him with all diligence of mind, if ye do this, he will, according to his own will and pleasure, deliver you out of bondage"5. As we put our trust in the Lord, He will help us in our trials to find suitable employment. Use your time, skills and talents in your search for employment: Nephi inventoried his skills and capabilities and anxiously became engaged in seeking new "employment" as a provider. Nephi was skilled in metal and wood working. He used his knowledge, skills and talents and "did make out of wood a bow, and out of a straight stick, an arrow." 6 He didn't idly sit by as did his brothers due to "their bows having lost their springs"7. He proactively "armed himself with a bow and an arrow, with a sling and with stones"8. Today, we need to take inventory of our skills, talents and abilities. To be successful in finding new employment, we need to understand our strengths and weaknesses, our likes and dislikes. We need to spend time every day in developing our talents, skills and abilities. We can "arm ourselves" with "Power" and "Me in 30 seconds" statements. We can network with others through social and professional networks such as LinkedIn, Face Book, MySpace or Twitter. As we put forth effort, the Lord will recognize and bless our efforts. Utilize the tools and means of support the Lord has provided: Prior to Nephi's bow breaking, the Lord provided Lehi with a "round ball of curious workmanship; and it was of fine brass"9. The Liahona "pointed the way whither (they) should go into the wilderness" 10 as well as provided the Lord's counsel and instruction to them. Today, the Lord has provided many resources available through the LDS Employment Resource Centers such as the Career Workshop, networking meetings, resume assistance, and other valuable resources which are also available on providentliving.org and the new website ldsjobs.org. We should utilize all of these resources the Lord has provided in seeking suitable employment. Be humble and seek guidance and counsel from your priesthood leaders: After arming himself, Nephi approached his father, Lehi the prophet, to ask "whither shall I go to find food."11 Nephi had the blessing and privilege of seeing many of the same visions his father had seen. He was a worthy vessel of the Lord but he understood priesthood line of authority; he understood that with the Lord it "must be done in mine own way."12 He therefore approached his father, which caused his father to approach the Lord in prayer to seek guidance in finding food. Due to his murmuring, Lehi was chastened by the Lord. Once Lehi humbled himself "into the depths of sorrow"13 for his murmuring against the Lord, he received instructions written on the Liahona. Through his actions, Nephi helped his father to repent and re-strengthen his role as the family's patriarch and Lord's prophet. Today, we need to approach our bishops, branch presidents and quorum leaders for guidance and counsel. Bishops and branch presidents are called of God and are blessed with discernment. They can provide valuable counsel. They hold keys that can be used to provide financial assistance, where needed and appropriate. However, just as Nephi downsized from a bow made of "fine steel" to one made of wood, so must we rein in our lifestyles, if necessary. The fast offering funds of the Church are sacred and are not to be used to sustain a lifestyle. The bishops are blessed with discernment, inspiration and wisdom in regards to providing fast offering assistance and we must be humble and willing to follow their counsel; we will be blessed as we do so. Help others in need: In Nephi's state of unemployment, he continued to serve others. He helped family members remember their covenants and their God. He helped others regain their hope, strengthen their trust in God, and regain their "employment" in God's service. We, likewise, can serve others by networking and helping others find jobs. We can serve more diligently in our church callings and thereby strengthen one another. We can set better examples of gospel principles in our actions and teachings. The Lord requires faith, hope and effort: The Liahona worked "according to the faith and diligence which we gave unto it. And thus we see that by small means the Lord can bring about great things."14 Nephi "did go forth up into the top of the mountain, according to the directions which were given upon the ball…and and it came to pass that (he) did slay wild beasts insomuch that (he) did obtain food for (his) families"15. Nephi had to exert effort. There was no ram in the nearby thicket or on the mountain's hillside. There was no manna from heaven. He had to climb to the "top of the mountain" to slay animals that he might obtain food. We also may have to climb to the top of the mountain in our job search. It will take effort; it will require that we have hope, faith and trust in God that all things will work out for our benefit. Moroni taught: "I would show unto the world that faith is things which are hoped for and not seen; wherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith."16 We must have the faith, hope and trust that we will be successful in our search. Give thanks and acknowledge the Lord's hand in our lives: When Nephi brought the slain animals to camp, his family members "did humble themselves before the Lord, and did give thanks unto him (the Lord)"17. We likewise must be humble and thank our Heavenly Father daily for all that He does for us and for the gifts and blessings we have received from His hand. We need to also thank those who help us with our job search to include potential employers, networking colleagues and our family members, among others. Cultivating an attitude of gratitude will keep us in the proper frame of mind during our job search and in serving our fellowman. When facing trials associated with unemployment, under-employment or a change in occupation, we need to follow the example of Nephi when he broke his bow. Nephi knew the importance of trusting in the Lord, being anxiously engaged in finding solutions to his trials; serving and helping others in their time of need; seeking guidance from the Lord's representatives; using the available means the Lord has provided; and the importance of cultivating an attitude of gratitude. As we follow Nephi's example and do these things, the Lord will bless us in our efforts. President Hinckley taught us that the Lord wants us to be successful. As we follow the examples He has given us in the scriptures, we will succeed.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Today coming back from lunch we were singin' in the rain. Yesterday we were sittin' in the rain

Today it was a nice rain that cooled us off, which was a relief from our hot temperatures. Yesterday coming home from Gulfport it was raining so hard we had to pull off of the freeway and wait. We actually were unable to see out at all. Quite scary and dangerous really. It was quickly flooding the freeway. Today was singin' rain.

Monday, June 28, 2010

Stake Conference and Get Together

We took the young sisters to Stake Conference on Saturday and then on Sunday we took Ann, her mom Agnes and Patricia,a sister that's just returning to activity. They were both wonderful meetings. We have a most powerful Stake President who is an incredible speaker. He is a meteorologist and so during his talk he reassured us that hurricane Alex will not threaten us. He's been Stake President for 4 1/2 years. He was 4 months from retiring from the Navy when he was called. He told Elder Christofferson that usually at the time of retirement people return to their home town. President Christofferson said "you're not going anywhere". What complete dedication it takes to change your lifetime plans completely. He didn't say this in his talk but my Bishop told me that they told the president that he can't move until he's released. I'm so grateful. President Garrett is an amazing leader. After conference on Sunday all the full time missionaries in our ward went to Earnharts for a wonderful potluck get together. The red drink spill only spoiled it for a second. We quickly got it cleaned up and back to enjoying each others company. We have fun doing our sister pose. Sister Earnhart reassures us that besides looking silly we look thinner. On Monday we took the young sisters back to Gulfport to our Stake Center for interviews. We'll be losing one of our young sisters with the upcoming transfer. I'm sad to see her go. We go out with them often and have become very close. It's amazing how closely we bond as we serve together.

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Governors of Louisiana, Texas, Mississippi and Alabama Declare Sunday June 27th a Day of Prayer Over Gulf Oil Disaster

I join with my sister Linda who said "What great leaders you have back there who know who to turn to in time of need."

Friday, June 25, 2010

My friend shares with me

Sister Matson made this fun collage and allows me to use it. A family in our ward invited all ten of the missionaries over for dinner. It's really fun to all be together. Tomorrow and Sunday are Stake Conference in Gulfport. The Stake provides dinner for us before the session tomorrow night. Food everywhere. It's the southern way. In the photo is from top left Me, Elder Smith,from Kamas,Utah, Angela and Kaylyn Easton,Sister Matson from Idaho,Elder Bishop from Arizona, Sister Werb who is a service missionary from here,Sister Winters from California, Sister Wright from Iowa,Sister Goodin from New Mexico,bottom row is Elder Earnhart from Utah, Kaylyn and Sister Earnhart in the center, Tyler and Bro. Eatson. Elder Matson didn't make the cut picture wise this time, the cat jumped in his place. But he was there.